This bromance business is not about having sex- it should be a connection of emotional and spiritual connection. Too many want to make it int a sex thing and this will chase away Males not looking for a f uc k, but a true soul-filled friendship that will last a lifetime. You can get screwed by a perfect stranger, so should a Bond" be based on more than that? I have always slept with other Males, my cousins on the farms in the Summers, 4 to a bed, 5 beds in one room, (20+ boys of all ages hit the farm to help out every Summer, they have to sleep somehow! LOL!, and even when I was married and in the Army- out in the field soldiers would huddle up on the chilly to cold night and not always naked together- it was a bond, a social contract to be there for one another. All this sex crap pisses on that and keeps more Males from getting out of their "a lone" life. Women are pretty harsh these days and for me not worth the effort at my age the way they act. Males have to stick together in the USA, not as many gals out there really recognize Males need more than sex- they think as well, that's all we want. Sad but after having been an NCO in the Army and counseling couples- it is pretty accurate to say Females just do not think like Males. I would tell a wife that just because you birth a boy, wiped his ass and feed him, it does not make you the expert on MALES. Males hanging out, laying around, sleeping together does not MAKE IT GAY, QUEER, BI or any other politically motivated label. Those shallow control categories only keep Males from knowing each other, learning from each other and having buds that will have your back and you theirs's. I told my soldiers, be like dogs. They will sleep with you, have fun with you, loyal to a fault, and never turn on you, and NEVER "F" you,...., high qualities Humans should aim to achieve in HUMAN Male 2 Male relations.
Well said. I agree with you absolutely. Males created for male Bonding.



