The perfect girl - Part 2

In theory, I would expect three things to happen: 1. Scarcity creates value. 2. The extremes are not loved. 3. Proportions matter more than numbers. Do they verify?

1. Scarcity. Let's look at the average height and breast size.

Women's average height varies considerably, they are taller in the Northern part of the world, for reasons which I will not discuss here. It seems that you find the tallest ladies in the Netherlands and Montenegro (1.70m) and the shortest (1.51m) in Guatemala. I have never been to Guatemala, but for Montenegro and the Netherlands I can confirm: people are very tall, far taller than the French. At 1.80m (1.79m at a different measurement) I'm just a regular gal there. For reference, average ladies' height is 1.66m in Germany, 1.64m in France and the UK and 1.63m in the US.

So if scarcity creates value, one would expect men in the Northern part of the world to like shorter girls (tall girls are dime a dozen) and the other way round. This would not necessarily have led to an averaging out, because it's not only about what guys prefer but also about what they can get their hands on. About what is available.

Evidence for this is scarce. Do you guys fantasize about a tiny little girl? Well, ok, I'm sure you do sometimes, but how often? Small is beautiful. Each time I travel in some Asian countries or regions, say Thailand or Bali, I am so impressed by the natural grace of the girls. When a waitress serves you your drink, with those lovely gestures, with those small, beautiful elegant hands put together, wow. Excuse my French, but if I were a guy I would likely get a hard on. Plus, you guys must have a bit of a protective streak and small needs protection. And also, small girls are so much easier to manipulate in bed, everything looks bigger with a small girl etc.

On the other hand, all propaganda is about tall girls. Fashion girls are tall (OK, fashion is about clothes, not girls but still), a girl my size will always attract more attention than one 20 cm shorter... I was very self-conscious about my height in my teens, I was attracting too much attention, but now I'm fine with it, and would I choose to be 1.60m instead? Probably not.

So, I don't know. My take would be that this assumption is only partly true, you guys would rather have a small girl in your bed but would rather take me to a fancy restaurant. Am I right?

Let's take breasts. Boobs. There is a lot of confusion because there are 6 different systems of measuring them. For example, the US size 34C corresponds to the UK size 34D and the EU size 75D and it is 90D in France and 12C in Australia. But I'll take the most international one and cup only, between AA and DD.

Average cup size seemingly varies from AA in several south-Eastern Asian countries to C-D in Scandinavian ones and even D in Iceland. Wow. I need to move to Iceland, I have always been a bit complexed about my C-D cups and there I would be a small-breasted girl! While in France the average is A-B, in UK it is B-C and in the US it's C. Now, who went around the globe to measure the breasts of thousand of girls? I want that job - and I'm sure you guys also do.

So do guys in the Northern hemisphere prefer smaller, A-B cups? My impression is that yes, they do. At least judging by the guys on this site, and they must be quite knowledgeable, being nudists and having seen thousands of (non dissimulated) pairs. Unless the lady is in her teens, a pair of D cups will sag more than a pair of B cups and also guys here are a bit older than the average and small looks younger so... Do guys in Southern Asia like D cups? Honestly, by the looks I get when I travel there I would say that yes, they do. They also like tall, white haired blond girls, so one more argument in favour of my scarcity-creates-value theory.

I will pass quickly over the nature-abhores-extremes theory, which I think is valid. Would you guys take home a 2m or a 1.4m tall girl? Sorry, I'll rephrase, of course you would. Most of you would take any good looking girl if you were not married and she accepted. Would you guys prefer a 2m or 1.4m tall girl over one just as pretty of a more average height? I don't think you would. But also interestingly, would you take me to your bedroom or my (imaginary) twin sister who is 1.64m tall? Ok, you would take us both, but if you can only choose one, who would that be? I bet I would lose that context to my sister. OK, I occasionally (very rarely) wear platforms which bring me at around 2.03m. but that is more carnival-like than for seduction. Wear those in a crowded place and most guys' nose will be level with my boobs so I'll never be looked in the eyes and guys will get closer and more intimate than absolutely necessary.

Also, I would expect that most of you would choose neither AA cups nor DDs if given the choice? Still, why do all sex dolls and personal AI girlfriends have DDs? Maybe for teenagers?

Now, what about proportions? I would expect that most of you would like proportionally long legs and neck, irrespective of their actual size in cm? That you would find A boobs underwhelming on my big frame and C cups overwhelming on a 1.40m tall girl?

There is also a question about the hourglass figure. Much despised in fashion, but still statistics show than men like it. That the ideal waist to hips ratio, according to preferences formulated by many thousands men, would be 0.7. Happy to report that I got that. Ok, in summer, when I lose a couple of kilos it's more like 0.69, so my butt is a bit too big but hey. It could be worse.

So my take is that a 1.70m tall girl (a bit over average in most countries) with proportionally long legs and neck, small waist, 0.7 waist to hip ratio and B (or B-C) cups (and of course, pretty face, nice personality, blabla, blabla...) would be the ideal girl for most of you.

Would you agree with this conclusion?

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First, let me apologize for my delay in responding and the general lack thereof here. I truly appreciate & enjoy your ( Flora) effort here.

As for my own preferences, you are pretty much spot on with the specifications (LOL) given, they are just about perfect. And just for edification, I place you in the *just about perfect * category. The ladies all have their attributes wherever you visit but I suspect the European descendant males are more partial to the traits you describe. A little humor here, in college I went from dating a young lady who was just under 5 feet tall to one that was almost 6 feet tall one was much easier to find in a crowd than the other! My wonderful wife is not quite 5ft 8 inches but close. Thats about the average for women in my family. Maybe this will suffice as an intelligent response but again accept my apology for the general lack of replies. Maybe its just were all getting old & the grey matter is not running on all cylinders. Who knows?

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Good morning and yes sorry it took me this long to find the question. Not sure if anyone else had an issue with TN for the past few days. But my iPad is up and working again.

Same here as a young man who was finding anyone to go to bed with. Yeah started with under five foot tall with maybe B-cup size. Then average American with C-cup. There even was a a lady with very large DD-cup. Tall lady with C-cup, but she was marrying another man with money. Oh well ! The wife was average in every way as body size. But it still was her attitude that drove me to get to know her better.

There are ladies that we watch and the ones we wish for. But in reality its who you are that matters !

Oh I just thought about another possibility of who we choose ! Our Moms ! Hmmm I wonder ? Mom was a strong woman with her own attitude about things. Same thing for my wife, but then there was the first girlfriend who was Asian instead of German descent. Wow I still think about her and am so glad she didnt get stuck with me. But then we both were so young.

As for the very little ladies, I have always worried that looking at them was almost like looking at a child ! I might have said this before. Working in the city park. I noticed a pretty girl walking through the park. Her clothes were sexy and she looked tall. Then something hit my mind, the grade school is in that direction ! She a very young girl !

Really, truly, you all are beautiful people ! If you believe in yourself ! Thats really what is the most important part of being beautiful. Your models walking the catwalk are that way even though we all know what they are. Or how about rich older men buying a young woman to replace the wife they divorced. Now that is a great question to ask !

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John, thanks (again!) for the compliment, I appreciate it. I really do, you made me blush. Guys, you will never know the power of compliments, that's a weapon you should use more... On the other hand, John, I think the last pic you saw of me was from 3-4 years ago, so today I may be obese and ugly. I still upload tons of pics on TS, thanks to Jeanne, but I'm the model in less than half. In most I am the photographer. And the mods delete about 80% of them (ok, probably more).

Jim, I know about your attraction to self-confidence and I already said that I don't like the excessive, American-style self-confidence. But I do like a physical representation of it, elegance. Because of my dance training, I never slouch, I naturally walk with my back straight, chest out and chin high. And this remains true whether I am wearing a sexy evening dress and high heels, a small short, crop top and sneakers or indeed nothing at all. Although, I confess, many of the slippers I wear in the nude have a bit of heels. Not that I need the extra height (if anything I am too tall) or the extra length for my legs, but I am so used to wearing heels, they make me move nicer and feel better about myself and this compensates for the lack of comfort they bring.

But maybe my next topic should be about nudist elegance. And naturists will hate me.

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Still to this day I dont understand why the mods didnt like y. It was a private group, conversations were interesting and open to answering.

Sad when people have the power to be mean !

But still happy you are here !

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